I have made a real effort to go with the flow over the last few months. I say this because I often get discouraged, or I get anxious and I struggle with things I cannot control. Going with the flow for me is about just letting things happen as they do and to try to have a good attitude. I don't have to know the outcome of everything. I can let others lead and I can follow. I don't have to follow everything. I can make choices that will work with the group of people I am with and myself. It is about trying to listen to the spirit, and following it.
This scripture helps me. 1 Nephi 4:6
And I was led by the Spirit, not knowing beforehand the things which I should do.
With that being said. It is easy to go with the flow when you are in a river, or a steam, but it is really hard when you live in a wadi. What is a wadi you ask? A wadi is a dry river bed. It only sometimes has a flow with heavy rain. I happen to live in a wadi with certain issues in my life. I would love to understand how to go with the flow, but most of the time there is no flow. Sometimes there is a flow, but rarely. I will continue to try to go with the flow even if it is hard.