Monday, September 12, 2016
Yes I am aware that I may be making some poor choices and have made some poor choices in my life. I will say it really bothers me that certain people in my life are referring to the man I dated as a jerk. He isn't a jerk. Granted he is not ready...but that doesn't mean he is a jerk. I actually think he is a kind man who isn't ready for a relationship...maybe never will be. If the opportunity presented itself, I would date him again just to see. Our issues were communication. That is something you can fix. You can't fix a respect issue. He was hurt still and had some bad habits from his former marriage. I have issues too from being perpetually single. I am not saying it will work out. It more than likely will not. I also will say that online dating is kind of the worst. All these guys are just at best bleh, or at worst pretty yucky. I am not really interested in any of them. Is this what my life is going to be like--endless swipes left or right to find nothing special at the end of the rainbow. No thank you! Overall I hate when people refer to him as a jerk. It isn't ok. Maybe situations were not great...but it was never intentional. There are a lot more jerky men out there...and I have met my fair share of them.